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  • For those trying to quit watching porn

    Porn addiction causes many problems. I watched porn on the internet not long ago. I can remember the scene if I focus on the memory in my mind. Images and photos and videos and graphics are like that. Some stay in a persons mind longer. Other visuals seem to be forgotten soon after a person looks away. Porn addiction can be that way. If you’re not looking to the porn on the screen, you’re looking somewhere else. Or maybe you’re doing something completely different. I hope you’re safe and not a safety risk to anyone else.

     To overcome pornography, (I’m much better than I was) I stop looking, watching and listening to erotica. The specific porn content a person is addicted to matters. “Soft porn” is more extreme than looking at a photo of a person who looks beautiful to you. Know your limits. If you can get comfortable looking at photos of beautiful people wearing clothes you might be able to get a dopamine rush without looking at porn.

     Porn creeps up and down, to and fro. If you’re looking at soft porn, temptation builds as more and more skin is revealed and less and less clothes are worn. Porn addiction is either getting closer to “climax” or going from it. The visual stimulation increases and decreases like a wave on the shore of a beach in the form of people in various stages of nudity and sex.

    There are many theories about porn. One theory is it is healthy, and safe. Watching too much porn is not healthy. Try bringing yourself to climax somewhere private where you are safe without watching porn. Religious leaders might look down on others for masturbating, an addiction to porn might have nothing to do with pleasing a religious leader.

    Watching porn might be safe in private and it’s not a secret the source of the porn is making profit. If you’re addicted to porn or are worried that you’re watching too much porn for your own good, odds are the content you’ve watched is becoming more extreme. Everyone is unique and knows what turns them on. It’s up to you to turn off the porn show, website, channel, etc… It might not be that easy.

    The more amount of time you watch porn the more invested the creator of the content is in getting their product consumed.

    If you watch a lot of porn some of the photos on the home page of a news website might display a photo of a sexy model. THE PHOTO IS LINKED to more sexy photos.

    Remember you are in control. It’s your use of internet and Wi-Fi and mobile data and you have the power to do with your technology and magazine as you will.

  • Both sides now

    In news recently are reports of people saying having a relationship with God will relieve them of depression. I disagree and I love God. While some people’s depression might be relieved by having a relationship with God other people’s depression is more severe. A person experiencing severe depression might have been caused by a traumatic experience and requires taking medicine usually in the form of prescribed medication. Having good relationships with others can relieve depression. Good relationships with people are important. When you get along with the people in your life, social interactions become easier.

     It’s easier to meet new people and make more friends when you get along well with the people you know. Humans have evolved to live together. This is how life is created. A man and a woman living together are often mates and bring new life into the world. Life is a celebration of moments. Every moment is not extraordinary. One moment to the next are usually ordinary.

    A moment might be remembered as an incident and might pass by in the blink of an eye. Adults in business often talk about an incident in a negative tone of voice. For example, “there was an incident at work today” is an opening statement about something that happened at work that was not wanted.

     For example, if there are people involved in a car accident it is usually described as an incident. The details of the incident include everyone that was involved. Some drivers might stop at the scene of a car accident to help. Depending on the size of the accident, all the drivers on the road might need to stop. If a car accident appears to be small less drivers stop to help, passing by in the blink of an eye.

    When something good happens at work it’s usually talked about with a description explaining what was extraordinary, out of the ordinary. It was so and so’s birthday today. We brought cupcakes for everyone at the office to celebrate the person’s birthday. A birthday celebrated is an extraordinary moment in a long series of ordinary moments.