I went by my x girlfriends house last week. I had deleted her number from my phone and showed up and knocked on her door. She answered the door and was quick to smile. We talked for a few moments and she invited me in. Her apartment hasn’t changed much, it’s not a big mess like it was in the past. There are still way to many things in her apartment. She’s a hoarder. That was a major reason why I left her. I learned that people who hoard things can get very clingy, very attached to things, she was very attached to me and it was uncomfortable. In all honesty I was horny when I went to see her. We didn’t have sex. I didn’t go upstairs to her room so I don’t know if her room is a complete mess. I like to think that it’s not overflowing with things and clothes and it is not my business.

I took her out for ice cream downtown. We sat on chairs in the mall and enjoyed conversation and eating ice cream. Then we went to a clothing store where she bought a new shirt. Then I drove her to my home and helped her order an instruction manual for her sewing machine. We hung out and talked for a while then I drove her to her apartment.

It was good to see her and visit with her and it’s good to have my space.