My understanding of the word desperate is, it’s not a good look. It’s considered weak. In the past I’ve been desperate for shelter. I’ve been desperate for food. Through intervention I was put in a safe place that included shelter and food and professional support in my recovery.
I have a good home in a good neighborhood. I keep my kitchen filled with fresh nutritious food. Through intervention and recovery I overcame desperation.
I think a lot of people are desperate for love. I love me very much. I am desperate to love a woman. But I’m not going to hire a prostitute. Sex when there’s no love does not solve feeling, desperate to be loved.
I am desperate to be loved by a woman and I’m not going to start a relationship with the kind of woman who would bring me down, not respect me or take my love for granted.
I’m not in a hurry to become in love and I’m open to meeting a woman and become in love with her and loved by her.
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